Massage Etiquette for Beginners

Tap to Read ➤ Dinesh Relwani

Being comfortable in a spa is what a client wants, and making the client feel comfortable is what a therapist should ensure before starting the therapy. Clear all queries related to massage etiquette and massage therapies.

The word 'massage' is derived from the Greek word masso , which means 'to touch'. This form of therapy has been followed since ages, and is one of the best means of relaxation relating to body and mind. The person on whom the massage therapy is being performed has to be very comfortable with it, and has to follow the massage etiquette, as the main purpose behind it is relaxation. Massage is also a healing therapy for people suffering from muscle diseases, and disorders such as muscle pain, chronic pain, sprains, strains, back pain, muscle fatigue, chronic muscle disorders, etc.

Massage Etiquette Tips for Clients And Therapists

Fixing An Appointment

It is very necessary for a client to fix an appointment, and always reach a few minutes before time. This is always appreciated by the therapist, as the next client won't have to wait for too long for his turn. If a client is planning to cancel the appointment, it is always advisable to do it well in advance, and not at the last moment.

Disclosing Medical Conditions

Most probably, if you are a first-time client, you need to fill out a form stating your medical history. This is important so that the spa has an idea about your medical health, if you have allergies, heart disease, asthma, etc., and can advise against any massage type that may be harmful.

Discussing Important Points

A therapist is always willing to know the likes and dislikes of the client, and what body parts the client wants him to emphasize on. At times a client is not comfortable to be completely nude, and it is always advisable to undress to your personal level of comfort. It is necessary to discuss all these things well in advance.

It also becomes the duty of the therapist to give certain suggestions to the client regarding the flow of the therapy, and is considered to be a part of spa etiquette.

Controlling Sexual Excitement

It is very much possible that a male client may get an erection during a massage. This happens when the client is in a very relaxed state, and not because he is sexually excited. This can get very embarrassing for the client but it is not considered to be sexual misconduct.

However, if a client has any plans of getting sexually excited with the help of the therapist, it comes under sexual misconduct, and the therapist has every right to terminate the therapy. There will be occasions when the therapist might take the first step, and try to excite the client. Then, it becomes the duty of the client to tackle the situation.

Tipping The Therapist

This is something optional. It is just a gesture to show that the massage was satisfying and the client totally liked it. This is still not mandatory, but is something most of the clients do to express their happiness and satisfaction. It will also build goodwill and make you feel more welcome for future appointments.

I am sure that we must have given brief knowledge to a lot of people about massage etiquette, and help them get over their shyness and awkwardness of taking a massage, and rather enjoy it.